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The Erotic Trap – You Are Not Allowed To Leave!

You know that you are in heaven when you hold your Dear partner close to you. But you are deep inside a clever designed trap laid out by nature for only one purpose: To ensure the future of the mankind

Nothing feels better than to be close to your partner. Nature however made sure that you not only enjoy the show but that you like to stay in close contact with your partner as long as possible. Pheromones, lipophilic compounds associated with skin and follicles, provide some underlying help to stimulate the brain of the partner which in turn activates our sexual behavior and our attraction to the opposite gender.

Those pheromones are very much part of the invisible but very strong trap together with the control center, the brain, who always does what it wants most. It is a perfect illusion that we think we are in full control of what we want. Very likely, the opposite is the case.

You are guided carefully and unknown to you, the full way, until the result, a newborn, has been accomplished. But even now and then, Nature makes sure you not just drop the baby at the next opportunity but actually love it too. The big eyes of the toddlers are only one trick which let the mother stay and take care of the baby.

Men are not very much interested in other babies or children but for some reason, they are very attracted emotionally to their own offspring. They are in a trap again and have now to feed the whole family. Their love guides to responsibility and to the survival of their own family or perhaps better said of his own, well marked territory.

It goes even so far that a man and his wife would do everything for their kids, even if the attractions to each other might have cooled down when the trap has been removed carefully in a very, very slowly yet gentle way.

Heaven and Hell are very close together. Attraction can turn into hate and men might even interested again in another member of the opposite sex only to enter into the same beautifully designed trap again.

Actually, men are usually never released from this particular trap. They are only being allowed to exchange the current trap into another one of the same kind. Worse actually, they are also being allowed to try out several traps at once. Simply, because in the beginning, the trap does not look like one and is the most heavily camouflaged one we know. But even if a trap is recognized as such, it will be usually ignored. Double success for the always busy designer.

Men are, what they are and so are the women. That means, men can enter the game almost immediately again while the women, during the time until she stops breastfeeding, might not be very interested in sexual activities. She has more important responsibilities. This actually is a slap against the sexual vitality of a man. But what can he do? The trap has wide reaching implications.

You might wonder what is the name of the major trap?

Very easy, remember it:

LOVE

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Emotional Tears, Tears Research and the Benefit of Crying

A short primer about tears and tears research!

Tears are a well-known by-product of our human development but what they are made of were unknown until recently.

According scientists, tears are actually very complex and made of three layers, including a watery one which is between two others, one of them oily. Tears are there to keep our eyes moist even if we don’t know it. But with each blink of an eye a film of tears is distributed across the sensitive eyes.

Not functionally tears are actually a disorder and the eyes become dry and get damaged with a sensation of burns or aches. Having a dry-eye disorder is actually not that seldom, up to 14 million Americans do have such a problem.

Crying itself is beneficial as it helps reducing the stress in the mind and the body. In that case, the composition of tears are slightly different.


Video:  Study Finds Women’s Tears Dampen Men’s Arousal

There are three known kind of tears: “Reflex tears”, “basal tears” and “psychic tears” (when we are cry or weep).

But as you may have ever suspected, tears do much more: They influence the behavior of other peoples. Interestingly, humans are the only ones who cry “emotional tears”.

Tears are chemical signals and as such might be used unknowingly as a weapon against a man: They make him less sexually aroused and his body is reacting in various ways beneficial for a woman but that will not effect his mood. I do think (unconfirmed?) it does really much more: It let him feel sad for that woman. Who does not saw a man who wants to take care about a woman who cries? But that might not be related to tears, however…

But men can cry too and transmit thus a chemical signal as well. This behavior may be directed towards other men to reduce his aggression but this is still a theory. More research is needed (and currently done) to understand the whole psychological role and impacts of the tears.

In any case, emotional tears are for humans an important step in its evolutionary development and it may be also the most important pheromones the human body can produce.

As for health reason, the Re-evaluation Counseling teaches that crying is beneficial as a therapy. By the way, only sad or painful tears taste salty and this as a by-product. “Happy Tears” are not salty. When I was a kid, my mother always said tears are salty because of our marine origin. Which might be a statement not so far from the truth.

Sometimes I cry when I see an especially emotional part of a movie and if I can, I watch it several times. After that, I feel so much better and are ready for the rest of the day!

I don’t like to cry…but sometimes it helps.

emotional tears, reflex tears, basal tears, psychic tears

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